How the hell to get out of my head and be more confident at a new job?

2021.12.06 21:45 Belatorius How the hell to get out of my head and be more confident at a new job?

I don't wanna go into the long story from rock bottom at 24 and making great progress now at 29. With the help of martial arts, great advice, and pushing myself, I have became fairly comfortable with who I am. I put myself through school for better work, over came depression, and financially things are great. However my new job has knocked me down several pegs. Its a completely new skill and type of people for me. I find myself becoming my socially awkward/shy self again. To the point where people have pointed out how shy I am. Im overthinking simple things and I can't stop. My job is maintenance so I work with manly men who has been turning wrenches since they were in the womb. They are very bold and in your face with what they think and expect of you. As well as typical high school humor and insults. As I struggle to unscrew a prox switch with 4-6 people watching, I begin to get embarrassed, which makes me fumble more, and I try and rush because I know its taking longer than usual, and it makes it worse. Eventually the job is done but I know i'm looking nervous and awkward as all hell. I feel more comfortable grappling with a complete stranger than having someone watch me work or when I realize how long a simple task is taking. How do I get over this?
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2021.12.06 21:45 GOE1122 Did I buy a fake graded 1oz Gold Buffalo?🤔

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2021.12.06 21:45 Burpmonster Master Da’an transmitting the Three Refuges to a bird

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2021.12.06 21:45 katieironfist Daddy Issues, the Skyrim mod! Playing Enderal: Forgotten Stories if you'd like to check this out with me!

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2021.12.06 21:45 Toxic50CaI Pov: Mondays

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2021.12.06 21:45 Keplergamer I do enjoy artisan crafts

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2021.12.06 21:45 ZoolShop FirstFT: US to hold diplomatic boycott of Beijing Olympics

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2021.12.06 21:45 AvaCatHasQuestions This is why.

I’ll start off by saying this. I don’t feel comfortable telling my my feelings/really communicating in any way because mom was mentally abusive. She is better now and it’s been at least 5 months. The words she said still live in my brain in a dark place. I can never forget what she did.
I don’t like to talk to her because before, I did try to communicate. I wrote notes and tried verbally. But I never got heard. She just would get mad at me or yell about how “What about me!?” Or just tell me I’m wrong and how she can do what she wants. She made me feel belittled. She always said,” So now you’re going to tell me how bad of a mom I am?”
Now, I am in a PHP program because I’m too afraid to tell my mom about anything. I don’t want To get yelled at. I don’t want to get hurt again. I hid my suicidal feelings and now that my mom knows, she actually WANTS to know how I feel. But I can’t tell her. Im too scared. I can’t trust her.
Today, I tried to communicate. For the first time in awhile. I used the communication journal my therapist recommended. I wrote how I felt and handed it to my mom. But the thing is. Mom mom should really consider thinking before she speaks. I know it sounds like a bitchy thing to say, But it’s true. She said “So now you’re going to insult me?” Those type of words are exactly why I don’t talk to her.
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2021.12.06 21:45 nerosoraru Follow4Follow goal is 50 followers!!

Hey my twitch is i'm tryna get to 50 followers on my path to affiliate!! I follow back really quickly lol, mostly stream minecraft rn but i play tons of games in general. Please give me a follow and drop ur twitch in the comments so i can follow back and check ur content out!! :D
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2021.12.06 21:45 19May Buying Peppermint Bodice for 18k

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2021.12.06 21:45 D2RENT Stuck Together (Remix) - J.Kliss

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2021.12.06 21:45 mohamedkhaled89 Fut starter

I would appreciate any recommendations for Seria a starter team for fut I already have Lauatro martinez - dries mertens - oshimen and defrel from objectives
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2021.12.06 21:45 sideshowbob233 Getting a resale certificate for existing NJ LLC

I have an existing LLC which was originally used for software development, but I'm looking to also being reselling tech products and would like to get a sales tax exemption so I can buy products for resale without dealing with NJ tax (most will be sold via Amazon FBA). From the NJ filing page it says they will provide information for a new LLC, but I can find zero information on getting this for an existing LLC. I called the state hotline today but they are "not taking calls at this time". Any info anyone can provide would be great.
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2021.12.06 21:45 Huge-Bottle-1011 Got this a while back and I have like 3-4 orders since it’s happen to lower suspicion. Would I be able to now DNA something

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2021.12.06 21:45 RamenRamenYummyRamen Is it appropriate or customary to send flowers to the synagogue for a funeral service (USA)

A close friend’s mother lost her battle with cancer. She was not orthodox, but attended service weekly at her synagogue. Feedback is appreciated.
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2021.12.06 21:45 cat_dog91 The Fighter’s power level

Seeing as the latest topic of the blaster caster has worn out its welcome (I even had a more positive post for them written up about what I think they do well, but decided against further beating a dead horse), I'd like to get a discussion going on what I see as the biggest potential balance issue with what is otherwise a fantastic TTRPG system, and that is the Fighter class. It seems to be a common consensus amongst many PF2e players that the Fighter is at the very least, a little overtuned compared to other martials, to the point where it can be considered ‘unfair’ to compare other classes to them, from a DPR POV anyway. I'm still yet to experience the game at higher levels besides what I've seen on stuff like The Rules Lawyer's level 20 boss fight video, but it's easy to see where they're coming from. They have the highest number of total class feats to pick from in the game as well as getting a couple of interchangeable ones for free as class features. They get AoO for free at level 1, an ability so strong it's almost considered griefing if you don't take it at level 6 when the other martials get access to it. They effectively have legendary in perception at level 7 for the purposes of rolling initiative. They are effectively immune to the frightened 1 condition (a very common debuff) and reduce anything higher by 1 level. And last but not least, they just straight up have +2 to hit over every other martial class besides the gunslinger, which I've been told +1 is roughly 15-20% DPR which if that's true the Fighter has 30-40% extra DPR baseline over other martials, free. Of course other martials get stuff too, like Rage, Panache, Hunt Prey and other class features that are supposed to close the gap, but those abilities are often situational, unreliable or come with drawbacks that make them harder to use, something the Fighter doesn't have to worry about unless you consider being locked into one weapon group a drawback (I personally don't). DPR isn’t the sole measurement of a class’s potential in PF2e at least, but you can’t really argue that the Fighter isn’t short on utility either, they are good at Athletics and very good at applying crit specialisations. Since their feats allow them access to many different playstyles, some have argued that using the Fighter chassis you can make Fighters that are better at punching than Monks, better at dealing damage than the Barbarian and so on. Not sure if I really believe this but I’ve definitely heard it a few times before.
Now don't get me wrong, I want to be proven incorrect here. As I said this is my final gripe with the balancing in the system and if its shown that the Fighter is indeed in line with the other classes, then I’m convinced the balance is near perfect. Even if the Fighter is OP it doesn’t seem to be by much and I’d still say the game is more balanced than other fantasy TTRPGs.
So to those who have more mastery over the system, is there any truth to this? Is the Fighter overpowered? And if so what could be done to bring them in line with the other martials?
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2021.12.06 21:45 hi_im_ducky Any nerds who drink out here?

I'm a board gameD&D nerd who enjoys hitting the taverns occasionally and playing small box games while having some pints and shooting the shit. My friend group is dwindling down (I have like... 2 friends at best these days) and I'm looking for more like minded people.
Anyone out there? Or anywhere you can direct me? I've looked at Meetup but I'm not finding much.
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2021.12.06 21:45 tele-tennis-Julia Welcome to try our VR tennis on AppLab

DM or join us on Discord to get free keys -
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2021.12.06 21:45 katieironfist Daddy Issues, the Skyrim mod! Playing Enderal: Forgotten Stories if you'd like to check this out with me!

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2021.12.06 21:45 Nevarges What are some things in a relationship that would make you controlling of your partner?

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2021.12.06 21:45 Aquafnn Does anyone know if the creative xp glitch still works? The one where you stand in creative for about an hour and 15 minutes?

I haven’t tested it out myself but I wanted to see if the glitch still works or if they patched it.
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2021.12.06 21:45 jdyhrberg Does anyone have a spear 1GB (yes One Gigabyte) SD card they no longer need?

Hi Welly folks, I have recently inherited a D50 Nikon camera from my parents. The thing is great for a 15 year old camera, however it current storage space is 16mb...
After wasting money on 2 large SD cards i have learned the maximum space it can hold is a 1GB SDC Card.
Did a quick TM search and found they are pretty much non existent or overly expensive for such old tech.
So I am just trying my luck to see if any of you lovely folk had one and would be willing to part with it?
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2021.12.06 21:45 yo516 Kanye, Kim and Drake at Virgils Funeral

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2021.12.06 21:45 anonymous_girl12 Printing Chapbooks for cheap?

Pkanning on printing my little story, it’s a small size 4x6, but the front and back cover is colorful and only 10 pages. I wanted to make 11 copies to start out with. Anyways anyone have cheaper alternatives than fedex? Would perfer a place with available shipping. I Tried to go for my sis' printer, but she said it wasn't good quality. And the library charges a $1 for colored prints. I'm in a town somewhere near Seattle give an hour or so. Knowing my luck Fedex willbe my only chance. Dont want to invest in a printer just yet.
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